Rahasia Kehidupan

Posted On September 30, 2014

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Saat kita memberi,
Kita akan menerima.

Saat kita menolong orang lain, pada saat yang sama kita sedang menolong diri sendiri.
Apa yang kita lakukan untuk orang lain, sebenarnya kita sedang melakukan untuk diri kita sendiri.

Inilah rahasia kehidupan yang tersembunyi. Bagi banyak orang, Bukan karena mereka tidak melihat kebenaran ini, tapi mereka tidak mempercayainya.

Karena itu banyak orang lebih berbahagia menerima daripada memberi. Lebih suka ditolong daripada menolong. Hidup hanya berpusat kepada diri sendiri.

Αda ilustrasi menarik,
seorang buta sedang berjalan dengan tongkatnya di malam hari. Tangan kanannya memegang tongkat sementara tangan kirinya membawa lampu. Pemandangan ini cukup mengherankan bagi seorang pria yang kebetulan melihatnya.

Supaya tidak penasaran, pria itu bertanya,
“Mengapa anda berjalan membawa lampu?”
Orang buta itu menjawab, “Sebagai penerangan”.
Dengan heran pria itu bertanya lagi, “Tetapi bukankah anda buta & tetap tidak bisa melihat jalan meski ada lampu penerangan?”
Orang buta itu tersenyum sambil menjawab, “Meski saya tidak bisa melihat, orang lain bisa melihatnya. Selain membuat jalanan menjadi terang, hal ini juga menghindarkan orang lain untuk tidak menabrak saya”.

Disaat kita melakukan sesuatu untuk orang lain,
sebenarnya kita sedang melakukan sesuatu untuk diri kita sendiri.

Kita diingatkan untuk tidak jemu2 berbuat baik.
Ini sebuah rahasia kehidupan untuk hidup yang penuh berkah, berkelimpahan & hidup bahagia.

Meski demikian, rahasia kehidupan ini tersembunyi bagi orang2 yg egois, kikir, pelit & melakukan sesuatu hanya berdasarkan apa yang untung bagi diri sendiri saja.

”APA YANG KITA LAKUKAN UNTUK ORANG LAIN, SUATU SAAT PASTI AKAN KEMBALI KEPADA KITA

Posted On September 19, 2014

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Don’t be afraid to show your true color because every color is beautiful as long as you can put it in the right place

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Posted On September 16, 2014

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setiap orang pernah merasakan futur..
dan itu sunnatullah…
tapi bagaimana cara untuk cepat bangkit dari futur itulah yang paling penting

salah satu cara agar futur tak berkepanjangan adalah tetap berada dlm lingkungan yg kondusif. Lingkungan yang selalu mengingatkan kita akan pentingnya mencari bekal untuk akhirat..

jika kita terpisah sendirian siapakah yang akan mengingatkan kita?
siapa pula yang mendoakan kita agar kita bisa istiqomah?
Yang ada kita akan semakin jauh
Yang ada kita makin asyik dengan urusan dunia..

hati bisa jadi mati.
padahal dunia jika dikejar tak akan pernah habisnya..
Sedangkan kampung akhirat itu adalah kekal…
kita baru menyesal dan sadar saat sudah terlambat..
sampai-sampai orang-orang yang merugi di akhirat berkhayal
andai saja dahulu di dunia beramal walau satu menit
ya hanya satu menit..

maukah kita seperti itu??

Comline vs Diskon

Posted On September 16, 2014

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Apa hubungannya antara comline dan diskon?

Jadi, ini di dasari ketika aku naik comline dr st. Cawang yang memutar balik di st. Manggarai. Sama halnya dengan saya, banyak orang yang beradu memasuki comline. Karna saya naik di gerbong wanita jadi yang naik adl wanita (prolog).

Nah, ketika kereta yang saya naiki tiba di st manggarai dalam satu menit gerbong wanita ini langsung penuh. Dan aku berpikir “wow hebatnya”

Begitu pula ketika seorang wanita melihat diskon yang tinggi. Mereka pasti sudah menyiapkan waktu, uang, dan tenaga untuk mendapatkan diskonan tersebut. Makanya tidak heran jika toko tersebut jadi ramai pembeli.

Dari hal tersebut di atas maka dapat disimpulkan jika wanita atau perempuan sudah niat atau fokus terhadap sesuatu maka mereka akan menyiapkan diri untuk mendapatkannya. Dan tidak sedikit kaum perempuan mendapatkan apa yang mereka inginkan..

So, I called it “The Power of Women”

The Problems Make You Stronger

Posted On September 8, 2014

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What people say, It just means all the challenges and problems that happen in your life can make you stronger. But the real question here is, is this saying true? Does it really make you stronger? Because if it is true, why do we feel hurt when those challenges and problems come? We do not feel stronger when problems are here with us. The pain are so real. We get down. We feel weak. So, how can it make us stronger when we just feel weak and down?

I found a thoughtful quote by Aly Raisman “You have to remember that the hard days are make you stronger. The bad days make you realize what a good day is. if you never had any bad days, you would never have that sense of accomplishment.”

I also once read a statement from someone on internet: “You’re braver than you believe, and stronger than you seem, and smarter than you think.” (A.A Milne)

when I had bad days, sometimes I would listen “what doesnt’t Kill you makes you stronger” by Kelly Clarkson. It seems like what I feel.

To be honest, this made me think again about the statement “what doesn’t kill you makes you stronger”. I always know this saying is true, but I also agree that I feel weak and get down when problems are around.

After thinking for a while, I finally got my own conclusion. Pain, anger, sadness, and disappointment are there when you are in the process. You feel like it is unfair. You are pissed off. That’s all just because you are in the process. But process is not the endpoint.

I always believe problems and challenges are not there just to get you down and make you suffer. They are there to teach you so you can learn and grow. It can be challenging in the process. You don’t feel comfortable because you are stretched into the better potential in you. It can be hard, but once the process is done and you see the result, you finally realize that everything you have been through would be really worth it.

Here is the thing. A problem is always bad when you look at the difficulties, but it is good when you look at how it changes you to better and stronger. When you know something bad happens for the better, you find happiness in your pain. But whatever it is, it always makes you stronger in the end. If you do not feel so, maybe you are still in the process.

How to Judge Someone’s Character

Posted On September 4, 2014

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Answer by Michael Baucom

The things they laugh at.

I had a coworker back in Sulphur who saved his laughter for things he genuinely thought were funny.

So if I said something funny and he laughed, I knew he was being real. If he didn’t think it was funny, he’d just look at me.

I liked that guy a lot.

 

Answer by Jill Uchiyama

I had a teacher who said it best.

You don’t know who someone is until you see them under pressure.

It is when we are under pressure that our true colors come out, when the ego’s ass is put to the fire and we become the gateway between our survival self and doing what is humane and expressing integrity.

If you think about it, it is really easy to be a nice person when there is no pressure in your life. It is easy to give money to those in need when you have it in your wallet. It is easy to smile when you’re already laughing. It is easy to dance when you are in love with someone or with life itself. You don’t mind donating money or doing extra favors when you have the time. Even arguing is ok when you are feeling fine otherwise.

But, put some pressure on the same person and you may be face to face with a demon.

It happens to all of us. And it’s humbling to see where we really are in relation to life.

 

Answer by George Cotsiki

There is a great Japanese proverb :

“When the character of a man is not clear to you, look at his friends.”

Apart from face to face interaction (to understand by their body language and eyes) this is an extremely revealing point about someone. People can hide very well their true character but they cannot escape the semiotics of their social circle.

In both my personal and business life this has been one rule that even though I have tried to ignore (due to my own biases), has come true time and time again.

 

Answer by Paul Denlinger

Their questions.

Questions reveal what they are focusing their attention on, and also what their blind spots are.

 

Answer by Sanjay Sabnani

Social media.

I learn more about people I have known my whole life long on Facebook than I have pieced together over the entire length of our relationship. When someone writes, it becomes relatively easy to see what their angle is. Are they an attention whore? Do they self promote? Do they reciprocate when people interact with them and their content? What are their photographs like? Are they all selfies? Do they hide their spouse and family from the world in order to appear ‘available’? Do they go out of their way to hide how they really look? Do they just play mindless games all day? Do they share popular content in order to get praised?

This does not work if they do not write online, or if they only use social media sparingly, but reading someone’s words is a way straight into their personality if you care to pay attention.

 

I Took this article from Time News, 

http://time.com/3221995/character-values-judge/

Hormon Endorfin untuk meredakan sakit.

Posted On September 4, 2014

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Well, awalnya dari rasa sakit yang dirasakan akhir-akhir ini. Rasa sakit yang makin kesini jadi lebih terasa.

Tapi rasa sakit ini sekejap hilang karena apa yang aku rasain, yaitu rasa bahagia.
Simple sih sebenarnya, jadi sebenarnya ketika kemarin seharian di kantor mengeluhkan rasa sakit bahkan untuk turun tangga saja terasa nyeri. Terus aku mendengar ada kabar bahagia dari temanku. Dan sekejap rasa sakit yang aku keluhkan hilang.

Lalu akhirnya aku sadar, mungkin akan lebih baik ketika kita sedang sakit kita mensugestikan rasa bahagia di pikiran kita. Rasa bahagia tersebut bisa menekan rasa sakit kita sehingga kita tidak memikirkan rasa sakit tersebut.

Rasa bahagia ini diakibatkan adanya hormon edorfin di dalam tubuh kita meningkat yang kemudian tanpa kita sadari kita kehilangan rasa sakit.

Jadi wajar saja jika kita sakit lalu dikelilingi oleh keluarga dan teman-teman kita yang peduli dengan kita, kita jadi senang dan akan membuat penyakit yang di derita menjadi sembuh.

Begitu pula dengan hadist:
Dari Abu Hurairah ra, Rasulullah saw bersabda :

“Siapa yang mengunjungi orang sakit atau berkunjung ke tempat saudaranya sesama muslim, maka malaikat akan mendoakan kebaikan dan keselamatannya dalam perjalanannya, serta mendoakan agar mendapat tempat di Surga”. (Hadits riwayat At-Tirmidzi)

Ternyata salah satu keuntungannya menjenguk orang sakit didoakan malaikat mendapatkan tempat di surga.

Jadi kesimpulannya, ayo jenguk temanmu yang sedang sakit, buat mereka bahagia dan ringankan penyakitnya. Hal yang kecil bisa berdampak besar..